Yes, whether you want to fight it or not, Valentines Day is almost here. Some hate this day, while others embrace the hearts, decorations, cards, and chocolates. Some say we should use every day to tell those we love that we love them. Others need a day to prompt them. But what if we saw this time as more than all of this?
What if we were missing the whole point? That is what crossed my mind this week as I’ve been writing out scripture every morning and reading various scriptures on Love.
“But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them. Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. Do to others as you would have them do to you. “If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full. But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.
What if we saw Cupid’s arrow as more than a love potion for those we already love, and let it penetrate our hearts with forgiveness to those who have wronged us, pierce our expectations and demands, lead us out of our comfort zone to learn what it truly means to Love beyond what society tells us?
What if we prayed for those we speak so badly about or judge in our hearts? What if we reached out in kindness and friendship to those we don’t know? What if we were led more in the Spirit rather than confined by our own fears and walls of hurt?
I of course want my friends and family to always know how much I love them, but I also want to Love with grace, with mercy, with the same Love that has been given to me so graciously, so freely, and that will never run out…
We have access to this Love and we have the ability to give it and share it with others…It’s not a love potion, but a choice.